Can my family refuse my marriage to a young man afflicted with an incurable disease, fearing the transmission of infection, even though research confirms it is not transmissible with medication? And is it permissible for me to marry him without their consent, and would that be considered forbidden?
If the suitor's illness is contagious, such as leprosy or Hansen's disease, it is considered a defect in marriage, and the guardian has the right to prevent the woman from marrying him. If the illness is not considered a defect and the suitor is suitable, the guardian has no right to prevent her, but she is not permitted to marry without a guardian. If the guardian prevents the marriage unjustly, the matter can be referred to a judge, or the guardianship can be transferred to another person. It is necessary to consult specialized doctors to determine whether the illness is contagious or can be transmitted to offspring. We advise reaching an understanding with the family and obeying them if they disapprove of the marriage due to his illness, because the guardian is often keen on the well-being of his daughter.
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