Is what transpired between the spouses considered a divorce, an agreement, a promise, or merely a discussion, and what is the impact of the phrases that were uttered in determining that?

Divorce is in the hands of the husband. The husband's intention is considered in allusive phrases such as, "Call your brother to come and get you." The fundamental principle is the continuation of the marital bond, and "certainty is not removed by doubt," so no attention should be paid to doubts regarding its dissolution. The whispers of divorce must be expelled and not reinforced. The divorce of an overwhelmed person afflicted by obsessive whispers does not take effect, even if he utters it explicitly. Respect should prevail between the spouses, and problems should be resolved through dialogue, while being wary of divorce, which leads to the disintegration of the family.