What should I do about the young man who called me again, given that my husband suspects me and monitors my phone, and how should I deal with my husband who mistreats me and reminds me of my past mistake despite my repentance?
The summary emphasizes that greed leads to destruction and turmoil, especially greed for the honor of Muslims. It stresses that happiness is achieved through obedience to Allah, and that disobedience brings nothing but misery, citing the verse: ﴿And whatever calamity befalls you, it is because of what your hands have earned, and He pardons much.﴾ (Ash-Shura: 30). It clarifies that patience in abstaining from lust is easier than enduring its dire consequences.
It points out that the current problem stems from accumulated mistakes, such as speaking with a foreign young man and not fulfilling the husband's desires, reminding of the obligation to obey the husband and the importance of serving him. It offers a cure through sincere repentance, which begins by severing all forbidden connections, such as cancelling the mobile phone, and committing to good companionship and obedience to the husband, affirming that Allah will mend the couple's situation if they are sincere in their repentance and adherence to His law, calling for piety towards Allah and preserving the family.
Summarized from the full answer at Ftawy · reviewed Sep 2, 2026
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