Is the physical relationship more important in marriage, or is love more important? And is love built upon a person's appearance or upon other matters, especially with the fear that the suitor might dislike his fiancée after marriage due to her not having a graceful figure?
It is advisable to take it easy on yourself and stop asking questions about the future. Love does not stem from beauty alone, but also from religious commitment and character, as the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: "A woman is married for four things: for her wealth, for her lineage, for her beauty, and for her religious commitment. So, choose the one with religious commitment, and you will prosper." A husband might respect his wife and fulfill her rights as an obligation to Islam, even if he does not love her. Allah Almighty says: "And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them - perhaps you dislike a thing and Allah makes therein much good." Istikhara (prayer for guidance) should be performed before marrying this man.
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