Is it permissible to marry one's paternal cousin by force?

If the father, mother, and siblings agree to the marriage with the paternal cousin, then there is no impediment. However, if the mother refuses, one should try to persuade her gently and kindly, and seek the help of her relatives to convince her, thereby combining obedience to the father and dutifulness to the mother. It is not advisable to rush into marriage if the mother refuses, because her dutifulness and obedience are of great importance, and she is entitled to three times the dutifulness due to the father.