What is the advice directed to a young man (12-19 years old) who seeks to possess people's hearts and gain their love through various means, including negative ones?
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The adolescent stage is critical, involving physical, mental, emotional, and sexual changes, and Satan is keen to tempt during this period. To deal with it, the following is recommended:
1. Performing acts of obedience and avoiding forbidden, doubtful, and disliked matters.
2. Choosing good companions and staying away from bad companions.
3. Occupying one's time with beneficial and useful matters to avoid idleness.
4. Treating people kindly and improving one's manners with them, especially parents and close relatives.
5. Frequently resorting to Allah through supplication for ease in affairs and improvement of one's condition.
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