Would my wife be considered divorced if she conditioned her divorce on her leaving, and then I said to her: "If your father considers it a divorce, then it is a divorce"?

If a husband says to his wife, "Go, you are divorced," then she is divorced, because this wording is explicit in divorce according to Islamic law. There is no consideration for the husband's claim that the divorce was conditioned on the approval of the wife's father, as it does not admit any other interpretation. The questioner is advised to consult scholars or the Sharia court for further clarification on the wording and its circumstances.