Is it permissible for a Muslim woman to refuse a suitor of good character and religiosity simply because she finds his religiosity unsatisfactory, fearing future problems if she marries someone who disagrees with her on matters of religion? And must she act upon the Hadith: "If there comes to you one whose religiosity and character you approve, then marry him," even if, in her view, he is committing a major sin? Or is it permissible for her to follow her own opinion and the opinion of those she trusts in understanding the Hadith?
A woman's acceptance of a suitor who possesses piety and good character is commendable but not obligatory. What matters in acceptance or rejection is the word of the woman, provided she is not coerced. Therefore, her guardian is not permitted to force her into marriage with someone she does not desire. What is considered important is integrity in religion and chivalry. Jihad is not obligatory for women, and a woman may dispose of her wealth as she wishes, as long as she is of sound mind. Moreover, marriage encompasses great benefits, and a righteous woman benefits the Ummah through her good companionship and the sound upbringing of her children.
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