What is the ruling on the husband’s words: "None of you know what anyone does for you, you don't want to live with him, and you sit [saying] ‘to hell with it, let it go,’ and the one who never sees what you do for her, ‘to hell with it, let it go,’" and his statement: "All of you are the same, you don't acknowledge a person's kindness and companionship, you always look out for your own interests. Be patient, what compels you to be patient? Answer, why don't you speak? Complete your threat"? And is the phrase "I don't want to leave" a delegation of divorce? And does his statement "Don't worry, I will give you a choice after five years" have any bearing on the occurrence of divorce?
What the husband said does not constitute a divorce. The second sentence is merely a promise, and the first is an option that does not result in divorce by itself. Rather, it occurs if the husband intended divorce by it and the wife chose herself; otherwise, it does not. Divorce does not occur with doubt.
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