The father does not have the right to impose certain conditions for the charity, but it is recommended for the son to comply with his father's wish, especially since maintaining ties with relatives is better. If the money is substantial, it can be divided between relatives, those in need, and beneficial Islamic projects. The hadith \"You and your wealth belong to your father\" was mentioned in the context of the father's desire to possess the wealth, and not in specifying the directions of charity.
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"Is it permissible to donate to charitable organizations without the knowledge of one's family, given their opposition and preference for giving money to relatives, and is it permissible for the father to pay and offer sacrifices on my behalf, being the head of the household?
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