Is it better to return to the homeland to get rid of the severe loneliness, anxiety, and depression that the questioner is suffering from, or to be patient with the young man she wants to marry until he finds a job, or to return to the homeland and be patient with him at the same time?

Your return to your homeland and residence there among your family and relatives is more befitting, due to the potential risks and harms that may result from your living alone. You are in need of a protector to guard you and a compassionate hand to assist you when needed. We advise you to return to your country whenever it becomes feasible for you and you find a mahram to accompany you.