Is it permissible for a woman to stipulate to her polygamous husband an increase in intercourse and spending, but without overnight stays?
Scholars have differed regarding the condition stipulated by the wife for an increase in maintenance over other wives. Some of them view the condition as valid if the husband fulfills his obligation towards each wife, while others believe in the necessity of justice among wives in maintenance and clothing, and this is the more preponderant opinion. Based on the preponderant opinion, it is not permissible for a woman to stipulate that she be favored in maintenance or clothing, and if she does, the condition is invalid. As for sexual intercourse, it depends on inclination and ability, and the husband must suffice her honorably according to his capacity and activity. In conclusion: It is not advisable to marry a woman who stipulates conditions that lead to harming other wives, and one should seek a woman of religious commitment.
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