Is it permissible to speak with the fiancée after the recitation of the Fatiha, in the presence of her family, to discuss matters of marriage? Who should be present at the marriage contract (aqd)? Is the suitor his own guardian (wali) in this situation? And is it permissible to speak with her as an official wife after the contract?
Source: FtawySummary from Ftawy's records · added here Sep 2, 2026
The engagement does not change the ruling concerning the woman; she remains a stranger (non-) until the marriage contract is concluded. The marriage is not valid except with the guardian's permission, the presence of the groom or his representative, and witnesses. The engagement period should not be prolonged, and one should be keen to complete the marriage to achieve benefits and avoid obstacles.
Summary from Ftawy's records · added here
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