What is the ruling on a Muslim woman seeking a divorce from her husband after seven years of marriage due to his illicit relationships and continuous lying, and is it permissible for her to seek marriage to the Imam of the mosque who arbitrated between them, knowing that he is married and they both have two children, and that polygamy is legally prohibited in Canada? Who will be her guardian (wali) in this case, given that all her family members are Christians and mock her Islam?

There is no harm for a woman to seek marriage with a righteous man. However, it is advised not to seek marriage with the aforementioned Imam for two reasons: First, to preserve his dignity and yours, due to your ex-husband's spreading rumors that he was the cause of the separation. Second, to avoid problems that may arise if the news of your marriage reaches the authorities.

Therefore, it is advised to look for another righteous husband, and you may seek the Imam's help in your search.

If a righteous husband becomes available, the wali (guardian) for the marriage would be the Imam of the Islamic Center or someone of standing in the community, due to the absence of a Muslim relative from your family.

It is also recommended to endure with patience the mockery of your family due to Islam and to constantly supplicate for their guidance.