Is it permissible for an employee who is going to marry a girl from another city to delay informing her family of his intention to move her to his hometown, especially since they object to their daughter moving away from them?

It is advisable to inform the girl and her family of the intention to move from their country to the questioner's country, especially if their disapproval of this move is anticipated, in order to avoid deception. It is necessary to be frank with them and try to convince them. If they do not agree and their condition cannot be met, it is better to end the matter before the engagement.