How do I deal with someone who curses me, insults me, and reviles me, or insults my family? Should I respond in kind, or should I hit him? Is cursing your father considered an insult? Are "idiot" and "donkey" considered insults or abuse? Are abuse and insults the same thing? How do I deal with someone who abuses me with phrases like "you're useless and you're doomed"? Should I respond in kind? What is the difference between cursing, insulting, and reviling?

The Lawgiver has permitted retaliation in kind against one who has transgressed, but forgiveness towards offenders and overlooking their faults is better and brings greater reward. Patience in the face of harm and suppressing anger are characteristics of the pious. The words mentioned in the question are considered offensive and abusive, and vilification is a form of insult. Cursing from a creature is an insult, while from Allah, it is expulsion and removal from His mercy. It is recommended not to pay attention to what comes from those who trifle and to rise above insults and comments, for that will repel their schemes and grant self-confidence and strength of character.