How can a Muslim avoid temptations in mixed schools in non-Islamic countries while fearing rejection from peers, and what is your advice to Muslim parents and youth to avoid detachment from their religion and identity in those lands?
It is recommended to fear Allah and beware of tribulations, especially the mixing of young men and women, for the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, warned against the tribulation of women. One must be careful not to mix with girls, or shake hands with them, or kiss them. It is not permissible to appease anyone in matters of religion, and the pleasure of Allah is paramount. If it is possible to transfer to a non-mixed school, then it is obligatory to do so; otherwise, there is no sin, provided one fears Allah to the best of their ability. Parents are advised to raise their children according to Islam and guide them towards good, and children should remain steadfast in their religion and repent. Also, those for whom it is not necessary are advised to emigrate from lands of disbelief to a Muslim country to avoid tribulations.
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