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Is it permissible for a woman who is suffering from psychological and physical harm from her family and husband to abandon her family in what is known as "beautiful abandonment" (meaning, only visiting them on special occasions and holidays)?

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Clinging to Allah and practicing patience are recommended, for in them there is solace for the afflicted, elevation of ranks, and expiation of sins. Unity should prevail among family members, and the whispers of Satan should be confronted with piety and patience. Parents should be just among their children, and a husband should treat his wife with kindness and avoid oppressing her. A beautiful, limited avoidance of family on occasions is permissible, along with showing kindness to them even if they mistreat you, because this removes grudges. Abandoning parents entirely is not permissible, and abandoning relatives for a legitimate religious reason is permissible, while considering the benefit. It is recommended to be diligent in acts of worship, remembrance of Allah, and companionship with righteous women to alleviate psychological pressures.

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