Will God punish me for treating my husband, whom I cannot stand due to his lying, deception, and hypocrisy, and his refusal to divorce despite my repeated requests?

It is permissible for the harmed wife to seek divorce, but it is better not to rush. Instead, she should advise her husband, pray for his guidance, and seek the help of someone who can influence him. She must obey him in what is good as long as she remains his wife.