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Is it permissible for a girl to marry a committed Muslim man, despite her father's refusal on the grounds that he is non-Arab and their financial situation is limited, especially after she resorted to an Islamic center and scholars to seek a fatwa due to the absence of an Islamic court?

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The Shari'ah criterion for choosing a husband is his religious commitment and character. It is not permissible for a guardian to refuse to marry off his female ward to a suitable suitor due to material or ethnic differences. One should attempt to convince the father to agree, make abundant supplications, and seek the help of someone who has influence with him. If the father insists on refusing, the matter can be escalated to the authority responsible for Muslim affairs to marry her off to the suitable suitor, if it is proven that her guardian is preventing her marriage. The father's statement preferring marriage to a disobedient Arab over a devout foreigner, or preferring forbidden acts over marriage to a foreigner, indicates ignorance, foolishness, and bigotry that Shari'ah does not condone.

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