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Is a woman considered to have severed ties of kinship (qat' al-rahim) if she prevents her children from visiting her deceased husband's family, given the harm and accusations she experienced from them, and after they filed a lawsuit against her for severing ties of kinship?

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Maintaining kinship ties is obligatory, and severing them is forbidden. It is not permissible for the sister to prevent her children from maintaining ties with their kin or to command them to sever such ties. The harm inflicted by the husband's family upon the sister and their slandering of her honor are forbidden and constitute major sins, necessitating their repentance. The sister is advised to forgive and pardon them, and to respond to their ill-treatment with kindness, so that she may attain the reward of those who forgive. If she is unable to do so, she should not prevent her children from maintaining ties with their kin, and she must raise them to be righteous, to maintain kinship ties, to be tolerant, and to be kind.

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