Why did the father abandon his son in the final moments despite encouraging him to marry a Muslim girl from a good family? And what is the reason for the mother's opposition to this marriage and her threat to curse him if he completes it? Is it permissible for the son and the girl to marry in court without the family's knowledge?

It is not permissible for a girl to marry herself; rather, her legal guardian must undertake her marriage. As for the man, his marriage is valid without the consent of his parents. However, it is advised not to proceed with marriage without the consent and presence of his family, due to the social and psychological problems and severance of kinship ties that may result from it. If he is unable to convince his family, he should turn his attention away from the girl. If he is deeply attached to her, he can explain his circumstances to her family. If they agree to marry her to him without the presence of his family, his marriage is valid, although this is not advisable except when there is a fear of hardship.