Is it a condition for sorcery to be directed at a specific person, and is consuming honey mixed with herbs from female vendors in the market considered a sorcerous drink if the person does not notice any change?

We do not have what confirms whether you drank magic or not, and we advise you to stop thinking about this matter, especially since you did not notice anything on yourself, because this notion may cause psychological problems and obsessions. The sorcerer may make it without intending to target a specific person, but rather makes it ready for whoever wants to use it, and this is common in many websites that talk about magic, even if we do not know the validity of that or its denial.