ما هو تفسير التقلبات العاطفية بين فتاتين، وهل يدل هذا على ابتلاء من الله، وهل سيجمعني الله بإحداهما إن صبرت؟
Whoever excels in preserving his soul from the forbidden due to love for a girl, there is no harm in his supplicating that Allah facilitate his marriage to the one he loves, if she is a woman of religiosity and good character. And the change of heart from loving one girl to another is a natural matter that does not cause worry. Ask Allah to grant you a righteous wife, and perform Istikhara (prayer for guidance) and consult others in the choice. If you mean that Allah will unite you with one of them in Paradise, this is possible if she died unmarried, otherwise, a woman in Paradise belongs to her husband from this world. And avoid self-praise by saying: (I am adhering to the love of Allah and His Messenger), rather say: "I hope to be so," due to His (Allah's) saying: {He knows you best when He produced you from the earth and when you were fetuses in the wombs of your mothers. So do not purify yourselves; He is most knowing of who fears Him.}
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