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How can a mother guide her children and husband—who are asking about hijab, the virtue of the mother, and prayer—given that she observes hijab but not the شرعي (religiously prescribed) one, and that she cannot take her children out of the evangelical school due to her husband?

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The problem with foreign schools goes beyond the ethical and behavioral aspects to include intellectual and creedal dimensions. The solution to this problem is not limited to secondary matters such as hijab and prayer but requires establishing the principles of sound faith and creed, and correcting the Islamic perception of existence and life.

One must begin by establishing the root of religion: being content with Allah as Lord, Islam as a religion, and Muhammad (peace be upon him) as a prophet and messenger. This entails loving Allah, obeying Him, and emulating the Messenger (peace be upon him). The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: “He has tasted the sweetness of faith who is content with Allah as Lord, Islam as a religion, and Muhammad as a Messenger.” He also said: “There are three qualities, whoever has them will taste the sweetness of faith: that Allah and His Messenger are dearer to him than anything else; that he loves a person only for the sake of Allah; and that he hates to return to disbelief as he would hate to be thrown into the fire.”

After establishing these principles, it becomes easier to discuss other Islamic laws, such as hijab and prayer. One can seek assistance from specialized books and works on these topics, such as: Tareeq al-Iman (The Path of Faith) by Sheikh Abdul Majeed Al-Zindani, Dhahirat Du'f al-Iman (The Phenomenon of Weak Faith) by Sheikh Muhammad Salih Al-Munajjid, Al-Hijab Sharee'at Allah fi al-Islam wal-Yahoodiyya wal-Nasraniya (The Hijab: Allah's Law in Islam, Judaism, and Christianity) by Professor Sami Ameri, Al-Hijab by Mustafa Lutfi Al-Manfaluti, and Shubuhat wa Aqawil Hawl al-Hijab (Misconceptions and Sayings about Hijab) by Asma Rashid Al-Ruwaishid, and Dr. Adnan Baharith’s books on women's hijab and dress codes, and Al-Salat Limadha (Prayer: Why?) by Dr. Muhammad Ismail. There are also beneficial messages for children by Dr. Amani Zakaria Al-Ramadi about the love of Allah, His Messenger, Islam, prayer, and hijab.

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