Is my marriage to my cousin valid Islamically, knowing that I was previously married to another man and had my marriage contract solemnized with him, then I divorced him, and now I am about to marry my cousin under psychological pressure?

The sister must repent to Allah for committing adultery and immediately sever the relationship with the young man with whom she committed this sin. The marriage that took place between them is invalid in Islamic law due to the absence of a guardian (wali) and witnesses. Furthermore, calling upon Allah as a witness to this adultery is a manipulation of religious law.

She must understand that losing her virginity through adultery renders her a thayyib (non-virgin), and her guardian has the right not to compel her to marry, as is the opinion of some scholars.

It is advised that she conceal her situation and accept whoever marries her in a legally valid Islamic marriage. She should inform her future husband—if he discovers the matter—that the loss of virginity can have multiple causes other than intercourse. She is permitted to undergo hymen reconstruction surgery if she fears for her life.

Finally, parents are advised to fear Allah concerning their daughters and not prevent them from marrying someone whose religion and character are pleasing for reasons that hold no weight in Islamic law.