Am I entitled to refuse to return to my husband after all the problems that occurred between my family and his, and my father's refusal for me to return to him, especially after he sent me a notice of obedience, knowing that I have compassion for my daughter?

The wife must return to her husband and live with him in kindness. It is not permissible for her to leave his house without his permission unless there is a necessity. She must not obey her parents if they tell her to leave his house or not to return to it, because obedience to the husband in this case is more obligatory and has greater right.