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What is the ruling on a girl marrying a young man whose family rejects this marriage due to a slight age difference and their desire for him to marry a wealthy girl, knowing that both the young man and the girl are financially comfortable and agree to the marriage?

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The age difference between spouses is not considered a religious impediment and does not negatively affect marital life. The matter revolves around uprightness and religious commitment. The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, married Aisha, may Allah be pleased with her, when she was much younger than him, and he married Khadijah, may Allah be pleased with her, when she was more than ten years older than him. Parents do not have the right to prevent a young man from marrying a woman he is pleased with in terms of her religion and character, using the excuse of age difference or her poverty. However, if they refuse, the general principle is for him to obey them to avoid disobedience, as obedience to parents is obligatory, and marrying a specific woman is not obligatory. Unless the young man fears falling into forbidden acts due to his inclination towards this girl, then obedience to Allah takes precedence, and he may marry her even if his parents do not agree. One must avoid a relationship with this man because there is no reciprocal love between the sexes except between spouses in Islam.

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