Would a girl accept a religious and respectable young man who is younger than her, suffers from social phobia and extreme shyness, and cannot imagine himself with a woman in a closed room, knowing that she is very shy and prefers her husband to be strong-willed, and could their psychological problems affect their future children?

Social phobia is a psychological disorder of varying severity, and what the suitor mentioned about the difficulty of him meeting with women is one of its symptoms. Therefore, do not proceed with marriage to him until he is cured or it becomes clear that what he suffers from is minor. This can be done by asking about him and verifying his medical condition and stages of treatment with the supervising doctor. It is important that his desire for marriage stems from his own conviction, not from the pressure of others.