Is it better to complete a marriage with a girl of religiosity, beauty, and good character, whose age is older than the suitor's by one year and several months, or to obey one's parents by marrying those who are younger and of ordinary beauty, and whose religiosity and character are unknown?
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If the girl possesses beauty, religiosity, and good character, and your heart is strongly attached to her, and you fear temptation, then proceed to complete the marriage with her. Try to convince your family, especially since you do not know the extent of religiosity of your two cousin nominees. Remind them of the hadith: "So win the one who is religious, and you will prosper." Alert them that a slight age difference between spouses is common and there is no problem with it, as the matter revolves around uprightness and religiosity.
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