Does a divorce issued in a moment of extreme anger count, especially the first and third divorces? And does the third divorce, in which the words were uttered unconsciously, count, given that the spouses wish to maintain the marriage?

If you uttered the third divorce while you were unaware of what you were saying, then the divorce does not count. However, the first divorce should be considered valid as a precautionary measure. Therefore, your wife is still under your marital bond. You both must be wary of the third irrevocable divorce. You should agree on another method for resolving disputes and avoid getting angry together. Instead, one should remain silent when the other is angry and not retaliate in kind. Then, you should discuss and understand each other in a calm atmosphere filled with affection and respect.