What is the ruling on a young man observing a girl he wishes to propose to, in order to ascertain her character and commitment?
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Monitoring a fiancée is divided into two parts:
1. Legitimate monitoring: This is recommended to determine the fiancée's suitability for the suitor in terms of her appearance and form. It is a means of legitimate viewing and must adhere to guidelines. 2. Monitoring to ascertain religion and morals: Direct monitoring should not be relied upon for this, due to the potential prohibitions it may entail. Instead, it is sufficient to ask those close to her. If monitoring leads to a forbidden act, such as spying or looking at 'awrah (private parts), then it becomes prohibited.
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