Is what a husband does—frequent travel and giving money to his brother, despite his wife's dislike of it, her psychological harm, and her need for stability—pleasing to Allah and permissible?
Traveling in the land to seek provision is permissible, and a person should be wise in spending, prioritizing those who are closest, such as his wife and children. He should not be deceived by illusory investments and should be content with what Allah has allotted him.
The husband must fulfill his duties towards his wife. He should not be absent from her for more than four months without her consent and without necessity, because the essence of marriage is tranquility and affection. He must return to his family before they become fragmented.
The wife does not have the right to prevent her husband from giving money to his brother unless the brother is a spendthrift. It is preferable to prioritize the most needy among relatives. The husband is advised to safeguard his money and spend it in ways that please Allah.
The wife does not have the right to demand a divorce, and the husband is not considered unjust as long as he provides for her maintenance and clothing and does not absent himself from her for longer than what the Sharia has permitted.
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