Is it considered forbidden to try to convince a girl to marry a man of good character and religious commitment, if she is considering marrying a man who does not possess the desired character and religious commitment, and it is possible that she might be compelled to do so?
It is not permissible for a father or guardian to force a mature, sane virgin woman to marry someone she dislikes, based on the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, who said: "A woman who has been previously married has more right to herself than her guardian, and a virgin should be asked for her permission, and her silence is her permission." The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, gave a slave girl the choice when her father married her off against her will. This indicates the prohibition of a father forcing his virgin daughter into marriage. However, there is no harm in the guardian advising her and enlightening her about the importance of choosing a righteous husband.
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