Are the phrases: "Marriage feels boring and tedious, makes you shackled and restricted in freedom, becomes a hell in its last days, and makes you feel that you are owned solely by your wife" considered to be allusions (kinayat)? And do Sharia rulings apply to the period during which one did not touch his wife due to doubt about the validity of the marriage contract, knowing that the doubt was later removed?

It appears that the questioner, who is experiencing obsessive doubts about divorce, must disregard these doubts. A lawful marriage does not involve negative aspects, and what the questioner mentioned is not considered an allusion to divorce because it does not indicate separation. Allusion does not result in divorce unless intended, and marriage is not invalidated by doubt concerning the offer and acceptance. Similarly, the husband is not sinful for not having marital relations with his wife to ascertain the validity of the marriage.