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Why has no one proposed to me yet, given that everyone who wishes to be associated with me experiences a problem before coming to propose?

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Delayed marriage is part of Allah's decree, and Allah is more merciful to us and more knowledgeable of what is best for us. We may dislike something, yet it is good for us, and love something, yet it is evil for us. Due to his ignorance of his own best interests, a servant does not know the difference between what has been withheld from him and what has been stored up for him. Do not be swayed by claims of magic unless there are clear signs, and its cure is readily available through lawful Ruqyah. Maintaining remembrance (dhikr) and relying on Allah are a fortress and a cure. And whoever fears Allah and is patient, Allah will not let the reward of the good-doers be lost.

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