Is it obligatory for the suitor to inform the guardian of the girl and the girl herself that he will marry her for the second, third, or fourth time? Does the ruling differ if the guardian is a disbeliever? Is the guardian's knowledge of this a condition for the validity of the contract, especially if the girl is newly committed to Islam and her parents reject Islam? Is it permissible to conceal this matter from the guardian in this case?
The suitor is not obligated to inform his fiancée or her guardian that he intends to marry again, a third, or a fourth time. This is because Allah has permitted polygyny and has not stipulated that the wife must be aware of it. Allah Almighty says: "Marry such women as seem good to you, two, three, or four; but if you fear that you will not be able to deal justly with them, then marry only one."
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