Is the husband's saying to his wife, "I don't want you," considered an allusion to divorce (kinayah) and what are the resulting Sharia rulings, given that he said it with the intention of threatening, not divorcing, and is it considered a conditional divorce?
The phrase "I don't want you" is considered by some jurists to be an indirect expression of divorce (kinayah), which does not result in divorce unless accompanied by the intention (niyyah). Others believe that it is not a divorce pronouncement at all. In either case, the marital bond remains, and the default is the continuation of the marriage. What the husband uttered falls under conditional divorce, and the default is that it does not repeat unless intended. Understanding, respect, and dialogue should prevail between spouses. The wife's obedience to her husband is not absolute; rather, it is limited to matters of marriage and its related aspects. The husband's guardianship is one of administration and management, and it encourages men to treat women well and to be generous with them in terms of finances and character.
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