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Does my not speaking to my brother or greeting him, and shunning him because of his committing sins, his refusal of advice, and his aggression toward me, constitute a severing of the ties of kinship that necessitates sin?

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Source: FtawySummary from Ftawy's records · added here Sep 2, 20261 min readAlso available in العربية
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The fundamental principle is the preservation of affection and connection among Muslims. Abandonment (hajr) and estrangement (qati'ah) are not ends in themselves but rather means. Therefore, consider your brother's situation: if abandoning him serves as a deterrent to his persistence in sin, then there is no harm in it; in fact, it is desirable, and this abandonment should be for the sake of Allah. However, if abandonment does not achieve a legitimate religious purpose, then advice and maintaining affection take precedence over abandonment that yields no benefit. And if abandoning this brother repels a feared harm—such as his striking or reviling—then there is no harm in it.

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