How do we distinguish between the intention of divorce by allusion and mere passing thoughts or self-talk when uttering it, and do such passing thoughts of self-talk concerning intention revolve around the utterance of allusion?

The intention required for an allusive divorce is the firm resolve of the heart to effectuate the divorce, not merely fleeting thoughts, self-talk, or recalling the meaning of divorce. If there is doubt or hesitation in the intention to divorce by allusion, the divorce does not occur, because the default is the continuation of the marriage.