Does tribulation after performing Hajj mean that the Hajj was not accepted?

It is not a condition for an accepted Hajj that a person experiences no problems; rather, the pilgrim should supplicate and rely on Allah for their عمل (deed) to be accepted. The spouses should seek the causes of their disagreement and resolve them according to Islamic law. Each of them should pardon the other and live with them in kindness, for Allah has wisdom in everything with which He tests His servants.