Is a reclusive wife who does not host guests committing a sin, knowing that her husband believes that not hosting them is a sin, citing that "the guest is Allah's guest" and that the Prophet, may Allah's prayers and peace be upon him and his family, loved guests, especially given her financial and psychological distress from their presence? And is there a text or Hadith that confirms this?
If the intent behind the wife's welcoming of her husband's guests is to sit with them, there is no evidence for the necessity of this. However, her honoring them is considered part of good companionship, while observing the Islamic guidelines if they are non-mahram men. Introversion and avoiding social interaction is a behavior that can be treated and acquired, as the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: "Knowledge is only acquired by learning, and forbearance is only acquired by striving to be forbearing. Whoever seeks good will be granted it, and whoever fears evil will be protected from it." One can seek the help of psychological consultants to overcome this behavior.
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