Does the mother's custody of the two girls continue even if the husband becomes certain that the upbringing environment will not be properly Islamic, especially with the presence of a devious and lying maternal grandfather? And what is the age of the mother's custody for girls in this case? And how can the father avoid the negative influence of the grandfather on the girls' thinking and their religion? And how is the father's visitation with his daughters and their maintenance organized after divorce?
It is advisable not to rush into divorce, out of concern for the two daughters, and to attempt reconciliation by renting a private residence near the wife's family. The mother has a greater right to custody unless she remarries or is prevented by an impediment. Custody remains with her until the age of discernment, then the child is given a choice between the parents. If the upbringing environment is not Islamically sound, this must be proven before the judiciary. The best way to avoid the influence of the mother's family is to keep the wife to oversee the upbringing of the two daughters. In the event of divorce, the task becomes more difficult, requiring supervision of Islamic upbringing, correction of misconceptions, and choosing righteous companionship. The arrangement for visiting the children and their financial support is based on custom, and in case of disagreement, the matter is referred to the judge.
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