Intimacy
137 questions
Is anal sex with one's wife a matter of scholarly disagreement?
Is not the husband's insertion of his fingers into his wife's vagina on the wedding night to verify the hymen—which causes physical and emotional harm—considered a mistreatment of the marital relationship, thereby permitting the wife to refuse him?
Is it permissible for a wife to prevent her husband from caressing her anally or sucking his penis, fearing penetration or apprehension of sin?
Is anal intercourse with one's wife considered disbelief (kufr)? Does it make the wife unlawful (haram) thereafter? And is a specific punishment (hadd) or expiation (kaffara) required to purify oneself from this sin?
What is the religious ruling on someone who had intercourse with his two wives simultaneously, being ignorant of the act's prohibition, and one of the wives disclosed the matter to her family, leading to family problems and their demand for divorce? What should he do?
My husband has intercourse with me without us taking off our clothes. What is the ruling on that?
Does a bearded man (he who has a beard) refrain from licking his wife's vagina on the pretext of disgracing the beard and the Sunnah of the Prophet (PBUH)?
Is it permissible for a man to rub his penis on the outside of his wife's urethral opening without penetration?
What is the ruling on a husband spitting his saliva into his wife's mouth and her swallowing it with her consent and their enjoyment of that? And is the woman compelled to do so?
Does kissing and embracing one's wife lead to the emission of pre-seminal fluid (madhy), and what is the ruling concerning that, and is it obligatory to avoid it for fear of its emission?
What is the ruling on a husband and wife abstaining from intercourse in the vagina and instead engaging in oral sex with each other's genitals? Is this considered a forbidden perversion, given that the primary purpose of intercourse in the vagina is procreation?
Will a man be held accountable if he refuses his wife's request for intercourse, despite her asking for it?
Is it permissible for a man to spit on his wife's vagina or anus without penetration, with or without her consent, and is it permissible to force her to do so?
Is it permissible to groan during intercourse, and is it obligatory to refrain from it if one of the spouses is bothered by it?
Is it permissible for an expatriate husband to engage in sexual activity with his wife over the phone (through words and imagination) to alleviate the intensity of sexual desire, or is that forbidden and feared to lead her into sin, and is it permissible for him to masturbate as an alternative?
Are the secretions mixed with a spot of blood after marital foreplay and before penetration a result of the rupture of the hymen or for another reason, and must the husband be informed of that immediately?
Is it permissible for a wife to pour her milk on her husband's body with her consent, and what should she do if the husband requests that and she is not consenting, and would she be sinful if she does not obey him?
What is the ruling on one who has anal intercourse with his wife?
Is the emission of fluid that occurred after arousal during an online conversation with one's wife, without touching the penis except at the moment of emission which would have occurred anyway, considered masturbation and a forbidden act?
How can a wife's pregnancy be known ten days after marriage, and what is forbidden between spouses?
Does the Hadith of Ali ibn Abi Talib, may Allah be pleased with him: "I was a man who experienced excessive pre-seminal fluid discharge (madhy), and I was ashamed to ask the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, due to the presence of his daughter [as my wife]. So I commanded al-Miqdad ibn al-Aswad to ask him, and he (the Prophet) said: 'He should wash his private parts and perform ablution (wudu),'" indicate that a man's frequent intercourse with his wife, or his foreplay with her, or looking at her with desire is not considered blameworthy, or indicative of love for worldly life and inclination towards it, and consequently, that such a man is not considered lustful or weak in faith?
Is it permissible for the husband to ejaculate on his wife's face and in her mouth to please her, while disliking that?
What is the ruling on a husband who neglects sexual intimacy with his wife under the pretext of fatigue and children, knowing that he expends his energy on other unbeneficial matters, which drives the wife to masturbate?
Is it considered unlawful what a husband does by having infrequent intercourse with his wife and intentionally staying away from her for long periods, in addition to his saying: "Go on, live on that for a month"?