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What is the appropriate legal age to make boys and girls aware of the dangers of relationships between the sexes, and is it permissible to answer their questions related to masculinity and femininity despite their sensitivity?

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The optimal solution for fortifying youth against falling into illicit relationships and the temptations of desires is based on introducing them to their Lord, teaching them the affairs of their religion, purifying their souls, and instilling the mindfulness of Allah in their hearts, as exemplified in the methodology of Luqman the Wise and the Prophet's (peace be upon him) upbringing of his Companions.

It is necessary to close the door on discussions about relationships between genders or what is called sexual education with youth, unless there is an extreme necessity for it, and only to the extent of that necessity, and with those who have reached or are close to puberty, and by a trusted person who observes the law of Allah.

As for questions that may arise from young men and women regarding these aspects, they should not be ignored or evaded. Instead, they should be utilized to correct misconceptions and guide them towards values of goodness and virtue.

It is recommended to benefit from specialized books and lectures in Islamic education such as "Raising Children in Islam" by Abdullah Nasih Ulwan, "The Prophetic Educational Methodology for the Child" by Muhammad Nour Suwaid, "The Responsibility of the Muslim Father - Childhood Stage" by Adnan Hasan Ba Harith, and lectures by Dr. Abdul Karim Bakkar and Sheikh Muhammad Ismail Al-Muqaddam.

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