1. What is the ruling on this young man's actions of misleading and deceiving his friends by going to the library to meet girls? And is his action considered lying, deception, or misleading? And what is the ruling on his claim of going to study with a girl while his original intention is not studying? 2. When is lying permissible in Islam? 3. Is it permissible for this young man to continue with charitable projects with girls only, under the pretext that he does not trust young men? And is it permissible for him to meet alone with them for this reason? 4. Is it permissible for a young man to undertake a charitable or religious project with girls only under certain circumstances? 5. What is the response to the young man's statement, "Whoever adds me on Facebook enters Paradise"? And what is the extent of the danger of this phrase from a legal (Sharia) perspective? 6. Is a young man's visit to a specific girl in her home after her father's invitation to him, under the pretext of congratulating her on 'Umrah, forbidden by Sharia? 7. What is the Sharia ruling on a young man discussing private matters such as marital problems and what happens on the wedding night with his female colleagues? 8. Is a young man paying university tuition fees without attending classes considered extravagance?
Mixing in universities is a reprehensible matter. If a young man is compelled to study in mixed universities, he must observe the rulings of Sharia, such as lowering the gaze and avoiding unlawful seclusion (khalwa). A young man secluding himself with girls to review lessons is impermissible. What this young man does, befriending girls and speaking with them, is reprehensible. However, his not informing his colleagues of what he does is not a lie; rather, he should conceal his own affairs. Likewise, his mixing with girls for the purpose of cooperating in sponsoring orphans is impermissible and is a deception from Satan. Uttering the phrase "Whoever adds me on Facebook will enter Paradise" is impermissible and involves presumptuousness regarding the unseen. A young man visiting the home of his female colleagues at the invitation of her father is permissible if it is for a permissible purpose and does not involve any Sharia transgression. His discussion with girls about matters of marital relations is a clear abomination. And a young man spending his money on that which has no benefit is contrary to Sharia.
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