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How should one deal with a wife who has left the marital home for four months and is insistently demanding a divorce or khul‘ (dissolution of marriage at the wife’s instance) due to the interventions and false accusations of her family, despite the husband’s attempts to mend the situation and his religious commitment?

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What the wife did — disobeying her husband, refusing to travel with him, leaving his house without his permission, and refusing to return after his return — all of that is impermissible. She must fear Allah and beware of nushuz (disobedience/rebellion). The questioner is advised to be patient with her and counsel her. If that does not work, he may marry another woman and divorce her, or keep her until she requests khul' (dissolution of marriage initiated by the wife).

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