Will the questioner be sinful for listening to music at a high volume from her father despite her advice to him, and is her hearing her neighbors and their recitation of the Quran considered spying?

You must continue to advise your father gently and kindly. If you do so, there is no sin upon you. Hearing music from your home or the sounds of neighbors is not forbidden unless you intentionally listen to it. Mere unintentional hearing is not problematic. Forbidden spying is to seek out people's private affairs and uncover the hidden aspects of their lives.