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What is your guidance for someone suffering from four problems: not marrying despite advancing in age, career stagnation that causes boredom, fluctuating performance of prayer despite being keen on acts of worship, and financial hardship that hinders her from achieving her ambitions, which has negatively affected her morale and made her feel weary and lazy?

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The problems presented are not difficult, and their cause may be a delay in marriage. Celibacy is not better than marriage, and a woman should not delay marriage if she finds a suitable spouse. Mere admiration or appearance should not be an impediment to rejection, for character and religion are the foremost qualities a woman should seek in her husband. As for work, once a husband comes, he is responsible for providing for the family, and before marriage, one should limit oneself to what suffices for one's needs. As for laziness in prayer, it is from Satan and a characteristic of hypocrites. Prayer is the pillar of religion, so one must seek refuge in Allah from laziness and negligence in it, and maintain it, just as the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, used to seek refuge from laziness.

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