What is the Sharia ruling on a mother refusing her son's marriage to a divorced woman who has a child, and what should the son do? Has the Sharia mandated prioritizing marriage to a virgin over others? And what is the ruling on the name "Nabeeh," and is it obligatory to change it?
The Islamic law guides us to marry women of religiosity and good character. It is not a condition for a woman to be a virgin, and there is no shame in marrying a divorced woman or a woman with children. The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, did not marry any virgin other than Aisha, and he married Umm Salamah, who had children. If the woman is religious and good, try to convince your mother. If she agrees, then praise be to Allah. Otherwise, obedience to your mother takes precedence, unless you fear falling into disobedience. The Sunnah encourages marrying virgins. You must repent to Allah for the sins you have committed. The name "Nabih" (sagacious/noble) implies commendation, so it should be changed, as ugly names or names that necessitate self-commendation are disliked.
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